New ideas for children participation in the wedding ceremony?

These people are horrible. They are not easy to work with, maybe you could convince them to include her more into the reception. A mother daughter dance. She can be included into cutting the cake by holding the plate they eat off of. She can give a toast without alcohol obviously. She could greet people at the door of the church before the ceremony. She is only nine years old and she will only be willing to do so much. If there is a child involved in the ceremony you should really stress that she needs the rehearsal. Children need to go through the motions of her responsibilities before it is expected of her. Good luck